Is change the enemy of marriage? Because with change being the constant in life, there will be differences.
There is no way to predict how someone will react to change. And being the one who is going through the process, we naturally have the tendency to assume everyone else is changing too.
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But that’s not the case. In fact, when we are working on our own transformation, the ones who are watching us may appear to be moving backwards.
However, they don’t see it that way.
We can actually appear to be isolating ourselves and acting all high and mighty.
The reason I raise this question is that when you are in the process of change, you view life from a different perspective.
Is change the enemy of marriage?
It most definitely can be!
And with change causes friction and differences. When you are going through change — making a conscious effort to instilling different actions, you are disturbing the norm. Rockin’ the boat!
When you rock the boat, there can be division.
Now, this is not an excuse to not be your best selfie. If you don’t want change to be the enemy of your marriage, what do you do?
The K.I.S.S. ~ Leave your ego out of it!
- No pointing fingers —> I’m right; you’re wrong.
- Model the “change”.
- Give grace. Let God do the work. You do yours.
“You matter. Your marriage matters. Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!”
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