Are you playing hard-to-get? Be careful not to play it too long. Make loving you easy.
Loving you shouldn’t feel like a chore. But be careful; it’s easy to continue the hard-to-get game. And over time, that can push away your spouse and put a wedge in your marriage.
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There are enough things in life that will become a wedge. So why drum up more drama than necessary?
But understand — It happens way too often!
Marriages end due to the fact that one spouse can’t please another.
You can call it excuses of …
- perfectionism,
- my way or the highway attitude,
- or simply you should already get me by now.
All of these things we have thought about ourselves. <STORY>
Sometimes we think that our spouse should know us like the back of his hand. But how much does he really know about the back of his hand?
He doesn’t. Personal details are not paid as much attention to like we see them.
The K.I.S.S. ~ Make loving you easy!
- Don’t nit pick! This adds to the “I can’t do anything right” scenario. Your spouse will feel like he can never please you. Nothing will every be good enough for you.
- Receive with gratitude. Whatever your spouse is trying to do for you, show gratitude in your words and actions.
- Share your heart. Think back to dating. You made it easy to fall in love. You weren’t so picky and set in your ways. You were much more forgiving and “for” giving.
“When you are trying to win someone’s heart, you have to be willing to give them your heart.”
And than means no strings attached. No conditions. No privacy policy.
Make loving you easy.
Stop the dreadful fights just because you want to be right.
Be attentive to your spouse in how he desires to love you. If you want something different, than share those thoughts…lovingly.
“Make loving you easy!”
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