Labels are placed on you daily leaving you with the liability to those you confirm for yourself. But what about life between labels and liability?
Is there peace and comfort in the truth you seek? Or are these labels thrust upon you that which you accept as truth?
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People may see you one way, and yet, you see yourself another. But which one carries more value?
Unfortunately, we depend more upon what others see within ourselves. What others think carry more value.
Now I get it! You want to believe yourself more. You try to convince yourself otherwise.
But that’s when the perfection curse takes over. You want others to see what you see. And when they don’t, you typically side with your accusers; the ones who thrust their labels upon you.
Then it happens. You now are responsible and carry the liability of those labels. Not only are you accused of something that may or may not be true, but you are slammed with the imprisonment of what those labels do to you.
Your days are confined to what you believe is true based on others’ labels.
Maybe you were not enough. Maybe you failed more than you succeeded. Maybe you gave up too easily. Maybe you quit too many times. Maybe you aren’t organized. Maybe you weigh too much. Maybe you don’t finish anything.
All of these maybes ring true in your head. And when you believe something, you accept the responsibility for those trues. Hence, the liability.
Keep in mind, these labels only become truths if they are true, and you believe them to be so.
But you don’t have to accept the labels or the liability. You can instead live the life between labels and liability.
However, you have to be willing to create a space for truth.
The K.I.S.S. ~ Create a “garden” for truth!
You want to grow only the truths you want in your life. You want to be able to get rid of the weeds. And then you want to fertilize that in which you want to blossom.
- Adopt the truth, the foundation: You are fearfully and wonderfully made. (Psalm 139:14)
- Is the label true? If yes, then what can you change/improve. If no, then let go of the label.
- Take the truths and multiple their strengths.
Labels can sting. Liability can keep you stuck and hold you back from your purpose.
Look in the mirror and see what God sees. Be open to growing as He stretches you. Be cautious of those who sling labels left and right, as they care very little and invest nothing in whom you are. Don’t let your path be defined by the liability of these labels.
Instead move forward with a pace that keeps you inline with the strength of your heart.
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