In a relationship, most of us desire to help the other one. But how do you support your spouse when it is beyond what you can give?
Love unconditionally goes hand in hand with marriage vows. When life happens, we want to be able to support and love in all ways.
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But there will be times in your marriage that you don’t have what your spouse needs.
And understand, this is beyond your skillset or knowledge. It’s nothing specifically directly related to what you can give as a partner.
Yet, when this situation does occur, the spouse who wants SO badly to help, gets hurt too. They feel inadequate and question if they are doing the right thing.
This is normal!
However, don’t put yourself on the guilt train. You will not and cannot be everything for your spouse. You will have to rely on others to help.
So what can you do to support a spouse when it is beyond what you can give?
The K.I.S.S. ~ Work as a harmonica!
It’s all about harmony. When you play the harmonica, all these notes go together regardless of what it sounds like. It’s beautiful harmony.
So work as a harmonica.
- Keep the FAITH with & in your spouse.
- Always be the number one person for your spouse to LEAN ON.
- Work together as a TEAM to figure out what is needed for whomever is hurting.
“Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!”
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