In relationships, walls are built for the protection of the heart and the expansion of oneself. However, if you want happiness beyond your feelings, you have to make walls fall down.
Why keep building up the walls? You might think you are right in doing so. However, you most likely are pushing your spouse further away.
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Marriage is the joining of two people from different walks of life and experiences. Together, they become one.
Now that doesn’t mean that you lose your identity as an individual. But how you do life together is definitely different than how you would do life by yourself.
You must be willing to make sacrifices for each other. Otherwise, why get married?
Look at where you are in your marriage. Is it what you hoped for before you said: “I do”?
Or maybe you are wanting more than where you are.
You can have an incredible marriage where each of you has a voice but together as a couple, you are a force to be reckoned with.
In order to be that couple, you have to put in the work and make the walls fall down.
The K.I.S.S. ~ Make walls fall down!
- Play together. If you don’t do life together, how can you claim you are together? It’s a little challenging.
- Listen beyond the words. What is not being said? Hear the emotions in your conversations.
- Nurture rest. If you are crabby all the time, you don’t even want to be around yourself. So rest both as an individual and as a couple. Go to bed and care for each other.
All of these help to make walls fall down. It breaks barriers. It allows you to soften a little and be more intuned with your spouse.
If you are always so uptight and flustered, you won’t be a help to anyone.
CHALLENGE: Where in your marriage can you make walls fall down?
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