Because as much as we think we control our children, they still have all the power. Parents, we are just sitting ducks.

But the thing is, we don’t have to feel that way. We can still do what we know is best for our children, and pray that our consistency will hold out over time.

So how do you win the game of parenting when you feel that what you’re doing doesn’t or isn’t making a difference?

You must be willing to go the extra mile and score B.I.G.!!!

The K.I.S.S. ~ Score B.I.G.!

Regardless of the outcome you are searching or hoping for, you have to be willing to still do what’s in the best interest of your child. As you know, parenting is not for the weak even though we feel weak more than strong most of the time.

However, the more we flex our B.I.G. muscles, the stronger you and I become as parents.

1. Balance the pressure! Winning isn’t everything. And being a good parent doesn’t mean that you win every time. In fact, if you feel like you’re losing more than winning, you’re probably on the right track. So do not focus on how your child is ignoring you. Look at what makes him/her pause. This is the kind of disruption you want for your child.
2. Ignite the push! When the going gets tough, the tough get going. You can’t give up just because the outcome isn’t what you expected. Keep going. “One step at a time leads to miles of greatness.”
3. Gut the presumptions! When you set the stage for what must happen, disappointment is certainly in your future. So drop the expectations and be present. You listening and being there for your child is golden! Let your presence trump your presumptions.

Please hear my heart. You are doing the best that you know how. Each of us can improve as a parent. So hang in there. This job might be tough, but it’s no longer a secret that the reward is worth every struggle behind the scenes.

“Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!“