The holiday season brings with it added stress, complicated conversations, and heightened expectations. Learn how to stop the fight before it begins, so you can enjoy a more memorable holiday.
Because normally, we remember things for the wrong reasons.
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No one wants to remember all the negative or bad stuff. That stuff is way too easy.
So how do you stop the fight before it begins?
The K.I.S.S. ~ Own yourself and not your spouse!
Now, this may seem a little drastic. Who wants to own themselves over someone else? And do you really have that power?
- Speak for yourself. Be ever so cautious not to put words into your spouse’s mouth. Regardless of whether it is a good day or a bad day, you will not get it correct no matter what. Speak for yourself. Own your feelings and how you see the situation. Let your spouse speak for himself. That’s his job.
- Ask questions for clarity. If you make assumptions, they only get you into trouble and most definitely can lead you to a heated discussion, disagreement, or fight.
- Keep it positive. Don’t allow yourself to get in a slump and be all negative. There is enough of that in the world. Your words do not have to ring negative. Give your words a positive twist always. And this way, you are thinking before your speak.
“Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!“
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