In today’s world, there’s confusion as to what’s really valuable. But instead of the what, how about the who? “You are seen,” is a fundamental thirst with our kids, their fountain for living.
We can sit it here and complain all we want about what we don’t like with the world right now. We can debate the reasons our upcoming generations are struggling.
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I want our time together to be productive. So I want you and I to look at it through the eyes of a child.
Every child what’s to be seen (and heard, too).
And unfortunately, that’s not the case. However, being seen is a major pain point for most kids.
Take a look at social media.
Why do you think our kids want to be on social media?
- TikTok
- SnapChat
- YouTube
They don’t care about being discovered. They want to be SEEN!
So why not do what most can’t and make something go viral?
It’s then I’ll be noticed. It’s then that I’ll finally be seen.
Everyone gets a trophy, yet no one still feels like they are seen.
How sad is it that our children have to go out and do something on social media to feel seen?
Wouldn’t it be nice to give our children a safe place to be seen?
The K.I.S.S. ~ S.E.E. your child!
Your are seen; a comfort, desire, a thirst.
- S – STABILIZE your child’s environment. Make what you do together special, even dinners. See them right in front of you. Have you ever watched a child try to get his mom’s attention? They come from all different angles and even are specific about their actions to get attention from mom. Don’t make your child search for your attention. Stabilize your child’s environment.
- E – EXPERIENCE your child. You and I have to get out of our own way and see our kiddos. What you do is important. However, seeing your child is more important. When I went from driving my son to school to him driving by himself, I wasn’t concerned about his capabilities. I now had to figure out how I was going to get the scoop of the day. That’s when we talked. That’s when we had our time, no interruptions. That’s when he would tell me everything. Now, I had to find another way. And if I’m honest, I miss those times so much.
- E – EMBRACE your child. Hugs are great. But here is where you show up as a mom with no judgment, only unconditional love! See your child from their reflection. Understand their heart.
You are seen, my child!
CHALLENGE: Where can you see your child more often?
CAUTION: Even us great moms can do better. So look at your day with a different eye. That will keep your focus fresh.
CELEBRATE: Your child deserves to be celebrated, not on social media but by YOU!
Make that go viral and you will change your relationship!
You are seen!
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