Daily responsibilities and busyness can keep you running in circles. So when it’s time to be present with your spouse, you are thinking about what’s left to do. You’re no fun to be around.
Have you ever heard that spoken to you? Maybe in the middle of an argument. Or you being crabby because you’ve had a bad day.
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Well, that was said to me recently by my sweetheart. Little did he know how it would strike a chord with me.
My initial response was, “I have a lot going on.”
He quickly interjected, “And so do I. But that doesn’t mean you have to act the way you are. You’re just no fun to be around.”
Really?!? There are more days that I can count where you not being fun to be around.
This is real-life stuff. And not something we want to discuss.
But today, we are setting the stage.
What would your response have been if it was your sweetheart making that statement to you?
You probably would have become defensive. How many times do you get a pass on your attitude?
Life isn’t fair, which means there are times you have to pick your battles.
The K.I.S.S. ~ Pick your battles!
Sometimes the fight is not worth the cost of your time. So don’t get all riled up for no reason.
- LET GO of the stuff that doesn’t matter. In the moment by husband made that comment, it was flustered because I had not finished parking the vehicle faster. He wanted to eat and not a second later. So he got fussy with me.
- LOOK for the good. Instead of listening to all the bickering, focus on the good. See what you can salvage in the moment.
- LOVE unconditionally. You have to overlook the silliness of the moment. Lay down the red carpet and walk away.
You don’t have to put up with the chaos just because it’s happening in front of you.
If you hear the statement, “You’re no fun to be around,” then be FUN!!!
- Stop trying to aggravate just because.
- Stop trying to be pushy and prove a point.
- Stop trying to be the one who has the last word.
- Stop trying to be right!
Just LOVE!!!
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