If you want to grow your marriage, strengthen your relationship, and deepen your love, leave your excuses behind.
Nothing kills a relationship faster than complaining and groaning about everything. Doesn’t matter your schedule, your activities, deadlines at work.
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If it isn’t the way you want it… You fuss. You argue. You whine. You withdraw.
Leave your excuses behind.
Because they are simply excuses — reasons or explanations of what you do not want. The premise is to justify.
And what does justifying accomplish?
Pumps up the ego. It’s all about YOU!
But in a relationship, it’s a two-way street.
Leave your excuses behind. If you choose not to, you’re shutting the other person out.
You have to evaluate how you communicate in your marriage.
- the TONE of conversation
- the WORDS you use to communicate
- the BODY LANGUAGE (body actions + words)
Now that you have a general idea of communication in your marriage, you can now figure out…
Are your excuses real or make believe?
The K.I.S.S. ~ Choose REAL or MAKE Believe!
- REAL —> Fact
- Simple life.
- You deal with what it is. No exaggeration.
- MAKE BELIEVE —> Justification
- Confused life.
- Think “Alice in Wonderland”
How big is your bag of excuses? Is that what’s running your life?
Choose real or make believe.
Either you see it for what it is (real), OR you make someone believe.
Examples:
- We don’t have time to spend together.
- Sex and intimacy.
Is your bag of excuses real or make believe?
“Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!”
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